{"id":56504,"date":"2023-09-14T09:56:32","date_gmt":"2023-09-14T09:56:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/?p=56504"},"modified":"2023-09-14T10:13:09","modified_gmt":"2023-09-14T10:13:09","slug":"cfare-eshte-stadi-fallik-i-elises-sipas-frojdit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/2023\/09\/14\/cfare-eshte-stadi-fallik-i-elises-sipas-frojdit\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb &#8220;stadi fallik&#8221; i Elis\u00ebs sipas Frojdit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Meq\u00ebn\u00ebse Frojdi m\u00ebsoi nga pacient\u00ebn e tij q\u00eb problemet e tyre buronin nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria,ai zhvilloi nj\u00eb teori rreth formimit t\u00eb personalitetit t\u00eb t\u00eb rriturit me an\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebs s\u00eb hershme jet\u00ebsore.Frojdi argumentoi se n\u00eb ccdo shkall\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs shtytja p\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi qend\u00ebrzohet rrotull nj\u00eb zone t\u00eb veccant\u00eb t\u00eb trupit;s\u00eb pari goja,pastaj anusi dhe s\u00eb fundi organet gjenitale.t\u00eb gjitha nxitjet e idit ai i etiketon lirsh\u00ebm\u201dseksuale\u201d p\u00ebr t\u00eb theksuar q\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjet e hershme p\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi seksuale vijn\u00eb nga i nj\u00ebjti rezervuar i energjis\u00eb psikike,sic vijn\u00eb edhe p\u00ebrpjekjet p\u00ebr seks gjenital.frojdi p\u00ebrcaktonte 5 stade t\u00eb zhvillimit psikoseksual t\u00eb njeriut.Ai besonte se personaliteti i t\u00eb rriturit formohet nga m\u00ebnyra sesi zgjidhen konfliktet midis nxitjeve t\u00eb hershme seksuale dhe k\u00ebrkesave t\u00eb imponuara nga shoq\u00ebria.\u00ebsht\u00eb zgjidhja e k\u00ebtyre konflikteve q\u00eb me sa duket i jep form\u00eb personalitetit.Sipas tij nj\u00eb person q\u00eb d\u00ebshton p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur ndonj\u00eb nga konflikte,mund t\u00eb fiksohet ose t\u00eb mbyllet n\u00eb nj\u00eb betej\u00eb psikologjike,q\u00eb shprehet simbolikisht gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs.Tipare t\u00eb veccanta t\u00eb personalitetit varen nga shkalla e fiksimit n\u00eb zgjidhjen e konflikteve.<\/p>\n<p>Stadi oral.Gjat\u00eb viteve t\u00eb para t\u00eb jet\u00ebs,k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia seksuale e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs fokusohet te goja.Meq\u00ebn\u00ebse thithja \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb foshnje q\u00eb t\u00eb marri ushqim,nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb surpriz\u00eb q\u00eb ky aktivitet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb aspekt i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm i jet\u00ebs s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.Por Frojdi argumentoi q\u00eb,p\u00ebr nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb kuptimi i t\u00eb thiturit shkon p\u00ebrtej plot\u00ebsimit baz\u00eb t\u00eb uris\u00eb.thithja \u00ebsht\u00eb burim i nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie intensive,k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi e p\u00ebrputhshme me ato q\u00eb kan\u00eb organet gjenitale seksuale p\u00ebr t\u00eb rriturit.sipas frojdit kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja q\u00eb ata thithin,kafshojn\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrtypin pothuajse ccdo gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb futet n\u00eb goj\u00eb.fiksimi n\u00eb stadin gojor mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb arsye p.sh :kur nj\u00eb foshnje vazhdimisht provon ankthe mbi at\u00eb q\u00eb ushqimi do t\u00eb jepet ose do ti hiqet,ai mund t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb totalisht i varur nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.Ky m\u00ebsim e ccon n\u00eb nj\u00eb ar\u00ebsi pasive dhe munges\u00eb pavar\u00ebsie.<\/p>\n<p>Stadi anal.Ndodh gjat\u00eb vitit t\u00eb dyt\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs,kur f\u00ebmija fillon t\u00eb zhvilloj\u00eb kontrollin e vullnetsh\u00ebm ndaj jasht\u00ebqitjes.Si rezultat ata ndjejn\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi seksuale kur i mbajn\u00eb br\u00ebnda dhe i nxjerrin jasht\u00ebqitjet.Pastaj lind k\u00ebrkesa p\u00ebr pastrim.St\u00ebrvitja p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb pastrimin n\u00eb banj\u00eb sipas Frojdit \u00ebsht\u00eb kyce sepse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb konflikti i par\u00eb n\u00eb shkall\u00eb t\u00eb gj\u00ebr\u00eb midis impulseve t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs dhe rregullave t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb.N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ky konflikt nuk zgjidhet p\u00eblqyesh\u00ebm,fiksacionet p\u00ebrs\u00ebri mund t\u00eb ndodhin.f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb u n\u00ebnshtrohen rregullave strikte dhe d\u00ebnimeve m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb shtypin komplet nxitjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb defekalizuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb lir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb p\u00eblqyeshme.Represioni i p\u00ebrs\u00ebritur i k\u00ebsaj nxitje mund t\u00eb rezultoj\u00eb n\u00eb formimin e tipareve t\u00eb personalitetit q\u00eb jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta me ato t\u00eb rastit sicc \u00ebsht\u00eb mosndalimi i nxjerrjes s\u00eb fekaleve.Tipare,si t\u00eb q\u00ebnit i ccregullt,ashp\u00ebrsia,mund te formohen si shprehje e zem\u00ebrimit n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb taktikave nd\u00ebshkuese,q\u00eb p\u00ebrdoren p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00eb vishet e t\u00eb zhvishet vet\u00eb gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtij stadi.<\/p>\n<p>Stadi fallik .Ky stad fillon n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn tre vjeccare.K\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia erotike e f\u00ebmj\u00ebs fokusohet n\u00eb masturbimin pra n\u00eb vet\u00ebmanipulimin e organeve gjenitale.Thuhet se ky stad veccan\u00ebrisht ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00eb zhvillimin psikologjik sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb periudha kur konflikti i Edipit supozohet q\u00eb ndodh. N\u00eb formulimin e kompleksit t\u00eb famsh\u00ebm t\u00eb Edipit, Frojdi tha se nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb paevitueshme, seksualisht, nga n\u00ebna. N\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb, ky djal\u00eb, ka edhe ankthin e kastraksionit (tredhjes), ose nj\u00eb frik\u00eb inkonshiente, sepse babai do ta nd\u00ebshkoj\u00eb duke i hequr penisin.Frojdi besonte, gjithashtu, se vajzat vuajn\u00eb prej zilis\u00eb p\u00ebr penisin, q\u00eb e kan\u00eb djemt\u00eb e ato nuk e kan\u00eb. Kompleksi i Elektr\u00ebs, sipas Frojdit, \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshira e vajz\u00ebs p\u00ebr ta zot\u00ebruar seksualisht t\u00eb atin dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsoj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebn e saj. Kjo d\u00ebshir\u00eb e vajz\u00ebs, sipas Frojdit, lind prej pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb q\u00eb ndjen vajza p\u00ebr trupin e saj jo t\u00eb plot\u00eb (pa penis). Dhe fajin p\u00ebr trupin e saj deficitar e ka n\u00ebna.Frojdi e trajton klitorin si nj\u00eb lloj penisi inferior, t\u00eb cilin vajzat, natyrisht, duhet ta zbulojn\u00eb dhe ta manipulojn\u00eb gjat\u00eb masturbacionit. Kur vajza rritet, thoshte Frojdi, ajo duhet t\u00eb abandonoj\u00eb interesin e saj f\u00ebminor p\u00ebr klitorin dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohet tek vagina, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb organi receptiv p\u00ebr penisin.<\/p>\n<p>Stadi latent Nga mosha gjasht\u00eb vje\u00e7, ka nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb \u201clatente\u201d, seksualisht t\u00eb qet\u00eb, n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn kurioziteti i m\u00ebparsh\u00ebm f\u00ebminor p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e seksit, z\u00ebvend\u00ebsohet nga kurioziteti p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ambientin e tij rrethues. Ai ndjek shkoll\u00ebn dhe shum\u00eb nga energjit\u00eb e tij shkojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar. Af\u00ebrsisht, n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn dymb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7, me hyrjen n\u00eb pubertet, fillon nj\u00eb ringjallje e interesave t\u00eb tij seksuale. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb duke u pjekur sistemi i tij i riprodhimit. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb stuhishme, faktori qendror psikologjik i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb pasiguria. Shkaku i k\u00ebsaj pasigurie \u00ebsht\u00eb fakti q\u00eb nj\u00eb trup plot\u00ebsisht i pjekur fizikisht, duhet t\u00eb udh\u00ebhiqet nga nj\u00eb mendje pa eksperienc\u00eb.F\u00ebmija ndjen nevoj\u00ebn t\u00eb testoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb provoj\u00eb veten. Fillon nj\u00eb gar\u00eb e madhe, si pasoj\u00eb e m\u00ebdyshjeve t\u00eb fshehura, q\u00eb f\u00ebmija i ndjen n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb. Gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtyre viteve, ringjallet edhe kompleksi i Edipit.<\/p>\n<p>Stadi gjenital. Pjekja (maturimi), ose e ashtuquajtura \u201cfaza gjenitale\u201d, karakterizohet kryesisht nga njohja e vetes, siguria dhe kapaciteti p\u00ebr dashuri prej t\u00eb pjekuri. Kjo m\u00ebnyr\u00eb sjelljeje b\u00ebhet e mundur ngaq\u00eb ai, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment, ka larguar at\u00eb q\u00eb deri tani ishte kryesore, shqet\u00ebsimin p\u00ebr veten. T\u00eb gjitha fazat e k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb seksuale pregjenitale, p\u00ebrqendrohen kryesisht tek vetja, jan\u00eb ego- centriste.Ato jan\u00eb narcistike, sepse i riu n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr rritjen e tij, p\u00ebr ambientin e tij fizik dhe mendor. Vet\u00ebm kur ka arritur rritjen dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb i aft\u00eb p\u00ebr veten e tij, ai b\u00ebhet i zoti ta kthej\u00eb dashurin\u00eb nga vetja tek nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Meq\u00ebn\u00ebse Frojdi m\u00ebsoi nga pacient\u00ebn e tij q\u00eb problemet e tyre buronin nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria,ai zhvilloi nj\u00eb teori rreth formimit t\u00eb personalitetit t\u00eb t\u00eb rriturit me an\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebs s\u00eb hershme jet\u00ebsore.Frojdi argumentoi se n\u00eb ccdo shkall\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs shtytja p\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi qend\u00ebrzohet rrotull nj\u00eb zone t\u00eb veccant\u00eb t\u00eb trupit;s\u00eb pari goja,pastaj anusi dhe &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":9455,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56504"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=56504"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56504\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9455"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=56504"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=56504"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=56504"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}