{"id":44527,"date":"2023-04-30T10:19:09","date_gmt":"2023-04-30T10:19:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/?p=44527"},"modified":"2023-04-30T10:19:09","modified_gmt":"2023-04-30T10:19:09","slug":"ne-shtratin-e-prokrustit-te-jesh-vetvetja-por-te-lejoj-te-jesh-vetem-sic-dua-une","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/2023\/04\/30\/ne-shtratin-e-prokrustit-te-jesh-vetvetja-por-te-lejoj-te-jesh-vetem-sic-dua-une\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00eb shtratin e Prokrustit: \u201cT\u00eb jesh vetvetja\u2026\u201d, por t\u00eb lejoj t\u00eb jesh vet\u00ebm si\u00e7 dua un\u00eb!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Nga Ardi STEFA<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>2023. Prill, prag maji zgjedhjesh lokale.<br \/>\nLuan shum\u00eb me moton \u201cJi vetvetja dhe jo ai q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt duan t\u00eb jesh, nuk ke pse t\u00eb konformohesh me normat e tyre\u201d.<br \/>\nNuk e kam fjal\u00ebn p\u00ebr shprehjen epike: \u201cB\u00ebj at\u00eb q\u00eb do!\u201d (kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr moto, q\u00eb sipas mendimit tim, njer\u00ebzimi duket se po e paguan).<br \/>\nZakonisht t\u00eb gjitha votat jan\u00eb t\u00eb barabarta dhe kan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn pesh\u00eb.<br \/>\nZakonisht t\u00eb gjitha votat num\u00ebrohen nj\u00ebsoj.<br \/>\nKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb Demokracia, thon\u00eb\u2026<br \/>\nNuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00ebse je i ri apo i vjet\u00ebr, mashkull apo fem\u00ebr, i varf\u00ebr apo i pasur, i shkolluar ose jo, i korruptuar apo ndersh\u00ebm, pragmatist apo idealist.<br \/>\nNuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00ebse vota blihet me nj\u00eb thes dje, apo gjysm\u00eb thesi miell sot.<br \/>\nNj\u00eb vot\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e gjitha q\u00eb keni n\u00eb zgjedhje, asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<br \/>\nMe nj\u00eb vot\u00eb ju zgjidhni politikan\u00eb t\u00eb rinj, ose mbani p\u00ebrjet\u00ebsisht n\u00eb pushtet politikan\u00eb t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr dhe ruani status-quon\u00eb q\u00eb ata duan.<br \/>\nMe nj\u00eb vot\u00eb, me nj\u00eb vot\u00eb, q\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsisht ka pesh\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00eb.<br \/>\nPor, gj\u00ebrat nuk jan\u00eb aq t\u00eb thjeshta.<br \/>\nSepse, n\u00ebse dalim p\u00ebrtej nivelit t\u00eb votimit individual, shohim se zgjedhjet nuk jan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb proces i barabart\u00eb.<br \/>\nNj\u00eb referenc\u00eb shtes\u00eb e p\u00ebrshtatshme, e thjesht\u00eb dhe e p\u00ebrjetshme p\u00ebr \u00e7ka do t\u00eb them m\u00eb posht\u00eb mund t\u00eb gjendet n\u00eb Mitologji.<br \/>\nTezeu ishte djali i mbretit, Egjeut t\u00eb Athin\u00ebs dhe per\u00ebndesh\u00ebs Etra. Tezeu takohet me Prokrustin jasht\u00eb Athin\u00ebs, n\u00eb Dafnin e sot\u00ebm. Prokrusti jetonte n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me dy krevate, nj\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr dhe nj\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb. Ai i detyronte kalimtar\u00ebt e vegj\u00ebl t\u00eb shtriheshin n\u00eb shtratin e tij. T\u00eb shkurt\u00ebrve ua t\u00ebrhiqte k\u00ebmb\u00ebt me forc\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb barazoheshin me gjat\u00ebsin\u00eb e krevatit. T\u00eb gjat\u00ebve u priste k\u00ebmb\u00ebt q\u00eb u dilnin jasht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i pasur t\u00eb barabart\u00eb edhe ata me shtretin e tij.<br \/>\nShtrati i Prokrustit t\u00eb mitologjis\u00eb ka simbolizuar me kalimin e koh\u00ebs p\u00ebrshtatjen e dhunshme t\u00eb nj\u00eb individi, nj\u00eb grupi individ\u00ebsh apo nj\u00eb populli n\u00eb korniza t\u00eb paracaktuara.<br \/>\nNjeriu modern e gjen p\u00ebrdit\u00eb veten n\u00eb shtratin prokrustian t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve njer\u00ebzore me t\u00eb njohurit dhe miqt\u00eb e tij duke k\u00ebrkuar prej tij di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ai mund t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb jet\u00eb kur t\u00eb duan, dhe p\u00ebrkundrazi, duke dashur q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb sillen dhe t\u00eb veprojn\u00eb vazhdimisht si ai. Por kjo t\u00eb kujton nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri i nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm, q\u00eb mendon e me vullnet t\u00eb lir\u00eb.<br \/>\nDuke iu rikthyer p\u00ebrs\u00ebri \u00e7\u00ebshtjes s\u00eb zgjedhjeve dhe atyre q\u00eb votojn\u00eb do t\u00eb p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrohesha n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb, n\u00ebse grupmosha t\u00eb caktuara shkojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb votuar apo jo.<br \/>\nSepse sa m\u00eb e madhe pjes\u00ebmarrja e nj\u00eb grupmoshe, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb ndikon n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si do t\u00eb ecin gj\u00ebrat.<br \/>\nKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb.<br \/>\nSepse e ardhmja e tyre vendoset n\u00eb zgjedhje.<br \/>\nK\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ata vet\u00eb duhet t\u00eb vendosin p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb.<br \/>\nDhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb vendosur ata do t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb votojn\u00eb.<br \/>\nP\u00ebrndryshe, t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt do t\u00eb vendosin p\u00ebr ta.<br \/>\nDhe me shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi k\u00ebto vendime nuk jan\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e tyre, sepse nuk kan\u00eb qen\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb elektoratit, popullit, por n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn vet\u00ebm t\u00eb \u201cpolitikan\u00ebve\u201d e atyre p\u00ebrllogarit\u00ebsve t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb, pa parime, ideale e miq.<br \/>\nDhe me t\u00eb till\u00eb jemi mbushur tashm\u00eb. Me t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb e vjet\u00ebr t\u00eb politik\u00ebs son\u00eb, q\u00eb i thurrin elozhe rinis\u00eb dhe punojn\u00eb kund\u00ebr saj, me t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb me mentalitet t\u00eb kalbur t\u00eb politik\u00ebs son\u00eb, q\u00eb punojn\u00eb kund\u00ebr rinis\u00eb.<br \/>\nNuk dua t\u00eb them se ka ndonj\u00eb \u201cluft\u00eb brezash\u201d brenda elektoratit.<br \/>\nPor, sido q\u00eb ta shikosh, ata votojn\u00eb p\u00ebr moshat q\u00eb nuk merren me problemet e t\u00eb rinjve, dhe ndryshe jan\u00eb vet\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb pasigurin\u00eb, ankthin p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen, shembjen e sistemit arsimor dhe mendojn\u00eb se e ardhmja e tyre po u vidhet.<br \/>\nT\u00eb kesh vet\u00ebm t\u00eb moshuarit q\u00eb shkojn\u00eb me vetmohim n\u00eb votime e votojn\u00eb n\u00eb zgjedhje, ata q\u00eb preferojn\u00eb t&#8217;i mbajn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat ashtu si\u00e7 jan\u00eb, dhe jo m\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb ku nevoja p\u00ebr ndryshim \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e madhe, \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb garanci se gj\u00ebrat do t\u00eb ngecin ose thjesht do t\u00eb p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsohen.<br \/>\nP\u00ebrkundrazi, sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb rinj t\u00eb votojn\u00eb dhe sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb votojn\u00eb duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb ka t\u00eb ngjar\u00eb q\u00eb kutia e votimit t\u00eb pasqyroj\u00eb ankthin dhe nevoj\u00ebn e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb nes\u00ebrme m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<br \/>\nPra, n\u00ebse jeni i ri, votoni.<br \/>\nMos i p\u00ebrbuzni zgjedhjet.<br \/>\nDhe votoni me mendjen dhe mendimin tuaj, pra votoni at\u00eb q\u00eb ju ka bindur se ka di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen tuaj.<br \/>\nMos thuaj \u201cnuk ka kuptim\u201d, sepse edhe ju do t\u00eb keni humbur rastin t\u00eb krijoni e t\u00eb ndikoni n\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb re.<br \/>\nMos votoni \u201cp\u00ebr qejf\u201d, sepse n\u00eb zgjedhje ka kuptim t\u00eb votoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb di\u00e7ka, jo p\u00ebr gallat\u00eb, apo se k\u00ebshtu k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb disa m\u00eb \u201ct\u00eb pjekur\u201d.<br \/>\nMos zgjidhni nj\u00eb parti apo kandidat n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb \u201cestetik\u00ebs\u201d s\u00eb tyre, apo edhe pamjes, por n\u00ebse kan\u00eb di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb.<br \/>\nShikoni programet e partive, jo batutat e lider\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre.<br \/>\nPor t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb&#8230;<br \/>\nT\u00eb rinjt\u00eb e sot\u00ebm shqiptar\u00eb, q\u00eb ftohen t\u00eb votojn\u00eb, jan\u00eb brez i krizave t\u00eb nj\u00ebpasnj\u00ebshme sociale, politike, ekonomike e morale. Jan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb atyre prind\u00ebrve q\u00eb pan\u00eb familjet e tyre n\u00eb k\u00ebta 10 vitet e fundit t\u00eb shtr\u00ebngojn\u00eb fort rripin. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, q\u00eb pan\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen e tyre t\u00eb zymt\u00ebsohet nga dita n\u00eb dit\u00eb. Pan\u00eb arsimin t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrohet; perspektiv\u00ebn t\u00eb err\u00ebsohet. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk gjejn\u00eb pun\u00eb, v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsohen t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb familje me rrogat e ul\u00ebta e \u00e7mimet n\u00eb stratosfer\u00eb. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, q\u00eb, (disa prej tyre) dol\u00ebn n\u00ebp\u00ebr rrug\u00eb t\u00eb revoltuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar e fituar nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe u tradhtuan nga ata q\u00eb u premtuan gjith\u00e7ka. Jan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e atyre q\u00eb mbush\u00ebn n\u00eb Dhjetor \u201990 Qytetin Studenti n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201cfest\u00eb t\u00eb demokracis\u00eb\u201d dhe u zhg\u00ebnjyen m\u00eb pas. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb q\u00eb studiojn\u00eb n\u00eb universitete, ku provimet i blejn\u00eb dhe diploma nuk u ka m\u00eb asnj\u00eb vler\u00eb. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb njohuri t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyera, q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb pun\u00eb e ose ngelen pa pun\u00eb, ose kur gjejn\u00eb duhet t\u00eb paguajn\u00eb, t\u00eb l\u00ebpijn\u00eb t\u00eb ndenjurat e \u201cpleqve t\u00eb rinj\u201d, ose t\u00eb paguhen n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb mjerane. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb rinj, q\u00eb pan\u00eb se si n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet krimit pasurohesh shpejt. T\u00eb rinj, q\u00eb pan\u00eb se vlerat morale s\u2019kan\u00eb m\u00eb vler\u00eb; se modelet e tyre nuk duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e ndersh\u00ebm e t\u00eb pun\u00ebs, por modelet e Big Brother-it, P\u00ebrputhen, etj, etj. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, q\u00eb pan\u00eb se sa shpejt b\u00ebn para kur je pran\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00ebve, n\u00eb krim, n\u00eb rrug\u00eb e politik\u00eb. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb q\u00eb e pan\u00eb se pasaporta p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur p\u00ebrpara \u00ebsht\u00eb sufllaqja e partive. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb pa shoq\u00ebri, t\u00eb mbyllur, pa marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie sociale, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ftohen t\u00eb votojn\u00eb&#8230;<br \/>\n\u00c7far\u00eb? Cil\u00ebt?<br \/>\nPor, votoni!<br \/>\nDhe mos harroni: ju keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb fuqi se sa ju thon\u00eb. (Gjithmon\u00eb, n\u00ebse vota juaj ka vler\u00eb, num\u00ebrohet e lexohet si\u00e7 duhet!)<br \/>\nPor a ka vler\u00eb vota juaj?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Ardi STEFA 2023. Prill, prag maji zgjedhjesh lokale. Luan shum\u00eb me moton \u201cJi vetvetja dhe jo ai q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt duan t\u00eb jesh, nuk ke pse t\u00eb konformohesh me normat e tyre\u201d. Nuk e kam fjal\u00ebn p\u00ebr shprehjen epike: \u201cB\u00ebj at\u00eb q\u00eb do!\u201d (kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr moto, q\u00eb sipas mendimit tim, njer\u00ebzimi duket &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":19486,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44527"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44527"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44527\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19486"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44527"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44527"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44527"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}