{"id":19537,"date":"2022-08-02T18:06:09","date_gmt":"2022-08-02T18:06:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/?p=19537"},"modified":"2022-08-02T18:06:09","modified_gmt":"2022-08-02T18:06:09","slug":"tupja-rama-dhe-qeveria-e-tij-shkaterruan-qelizen-shqiptare-familjen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/2022\/08\/02\/tupja-rama-dhe-qeveria-e-tij-shkaterruan-qelizen-shqiptare-familjen\/","title":{"rendered":"Tupja: Rama dhe qeveria e tij, shkat\u00ebrruan qeliz\u00ebn shqiptare, familjen"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Fjala e plot\u00eb e pedagogut dhe shkrimtarit, Edmond Tupja gjat\u00eb takimit t\u00eb kryetarit t\u00eb PD, Berisha me intelektual\u00ebt<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tani un\u00eb jam rritur, nuk jam jetim nga n\u00ebna e baba, kemi pasur familje. Ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb jetim do ta ndjejn\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb, pasi u mungon familja. Nj\u00eb psikolog amerikan n\u00eb vitin 1970 boton nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr, Dotson quhet, \u2018Si t\u00eb prind\u00ebrojm\u00eb\u2019. Francez\u00ebt e marrin, e p\u00ebrkthejn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lib\u00ebr dhe i vendosin nj\u00eb titull tjet\u00ebr, q\u00eb e nxorr\u00ebn nga p\u00ebrmbajtja e librit dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb; Gjith\u00e7ka luhet para mosh\u00ebs 6 vje\u00e7. Dmth themelet e personalitetit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs dhe shtyllat e personalitetit hidhen deri n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 6 vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n<p>U alarmua bota e psikolog\u00ebve, si \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur? Po \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur thot\u00eb ai, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka luhet n\u00eb at\u00eb moment dhe tjetra \u00ebsht\u00eb mbushje. Familja parakonfiguron vijat e p\u00ebrgjithshme t\u00eb karakterit. Kjo duhet t\u00eb na b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb. Familja \u00ebsht\u00eb e pashmangshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur njer\u00ebz t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm.<br \/>\nEmpatin\u00eb ta m\u00ebson familja, e ka njeriu, lind. E m\u00ebson edhe shimpanzeja empatin\u00eb. Por ka politikan\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e m\u00ebsojn\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb empatia; dhembshuria p\u00ebr tjetrin, t\u00eb dhemb tjetri, fatkeq\u00ebsia e tij.<\/p>\n<p>Mendoj se tema e zgjedhur p\u00ebr sot, \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb aktuale sepse mesa shohim, mjer\u00eb ata q\u00eb nuk duan t\u00eb shohin. Ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegje, jan\u00eb t\u00eb alarmuar. Familja \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb rip\u00ebrt\u00ebrin, nd\u00ebrron brezat. K\u00ebshtu si ja ka nisur Shqip\u00ebria, do t\u00eb vij\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, familja do t\u00eb shp\u00ebrb\u00ebhet. Antropologjia na m\u00ebson q\u00eb, si u krijua shoq\u00ebria, lindi nga per\u00ebndia? Un\u00eb jam evolucionist. Por ku paraardh\u00ebsit sipas mendimit tim, un\u00eb jam darvinian, arriti stadin homoerektus, njeriu q\u00eb u ngrit n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur t\u00eb homosapiensi, mashkull-fem\u00ebr, pati nj\u00eb evolucion. Sepse primati n\u00ebn\u00eb, kishte frik\u00eb se mos ja hanin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt edhe i shoqi, dhe gjeti m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn p\u00ebr ta zbutur t\u00eb shoqin dhe ja arriti, sepse kishte nevoj\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb dhe ja arriti.<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr psikolog francez, Aldo Naouri thot\u00eb; gruaja ka krijuar shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, duke nisur pik\u00ebrisht nga kjo. U krijuan shum\u00eb \u00e7ifte, u krijua fisi, pak nga pak, erdh\u00ebm tek bashk\u00ebsia, nuk po e \u00e7uaj shoq\u00ebri. Gjith\u00e7ka nis me familjen. Ka edhe kafsh\u00eb q\u00eb e kan\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebn e solidaritetit. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj qeni n\u00eb Afrik\u00ebn e Jugut, kur nj\u00eb qen \u00ebsht\u00eb i plagosur, i sjellin ushqim edhe k\u00ebtij.<\/p>\n<p>Solidariteti, dhembshuria, komunikimi jan\u00eb t\u00eb familja. N\u00ebse familja n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri zhd\u00ebmtohet, iku, mbaroi kombi shqiptar. Sepse familja shqiptare sot p\u00ebrballet me korrupsionin, pasuron nj\u00eb grusht njer\u00ebzish dhe varf\u00ebron nj\u00eb mori njer\u00ebzish. Varf\u00ebria po e vret familjen, shikoni dramat q\u00eb ndodhin brenda familjes. Dhuna kund\u00ebr gruas, f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, pleqve. Papun\u00ebsia, emigracioni, ikin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, mungesa e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, droga etj.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto krijojn\u00eb plag\u00eb n\u00eb familjet shqiptare, sidomos t\u00eb n\u00ebnave shqiptare. Prandaj un\u00eb them q\u00eb duhet ti biem kambanave t\u00eb alarmit. Rreziku \u00ebsht\u00eb te familja. Duhet t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb mentaliteti. Pa familje jemi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mbaruar. Jam shum\u00eb i trembur dhe i vesh, atribuoj nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme, qeveris\u00eb aktuale, q\u00eb ka nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme, sidomos kryeministri Edi Rama dhe kori i tij.<br \/>\nPrandaj para jush uroj kryeministrin Rama dhe qeverin\u00eb e tij, p\u00ebr lumturin\u00eb q\u00eb i sjell vetes dhe qeveris\u00eb s\u00eb tij, duke shkat\u00ebrruar thelbin, qeliz\u00ebn shqiptare, familjen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fjala e plot\u00eb e pedagogut dhe shkrimtarit, Edmond Tupja gjat\u00eb takimit t\u00eb kryetarit t\u00eb PD, Berisha me intelektual\u00ebt Tani un\u00eb jam rritur, nuk jam jetim nga n\u00ebna e baba, kemi pasur familje. Ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb jetim do ta ndjejn\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb, pasi u mungon familja. Nj\u00eb psikolog amerikan n\u00eb vitin 1970 boton nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr, Dotson quhet, &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":19538,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19537"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19537"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19537\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19538"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19537"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19537"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foltore.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19537"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}